Why YouTube Is a Single Parent’s Best Friend

Social media often gets a bad rap, but it is a hot commodity in single parent homes.

The path to financial freedom is simple – cut costs, eliminate debt, and increase your income. While the concepts are easy in theory, failure to apply them is what keeps people living paycheck to paycheck.

As single parents, we often feel there is nothing left in the budget to cut. If you get to this point, its time to earn more income. Even still, one of the easiest ways to maximize value while minimizing costs is our good friend YouTube.  

Many people think of YouTube as a cesspool of raunchy videos, silly pranks, and useless fodder that robs kids of their childhood. While I am not a huge fan of social media, the benefits of it on single parent households, and families in general, is phenomenal. I have come to appreciate the wealth of knowledge available on different YouTube channels and encourage everyone to explore them for their own benefit. In my opinion, the platform should be a staple in a frugal home. Read on to find out why.

1.You can learn how to fix things on your own.

If you want information, Google it. If you want to learn how to fix things, YouTube it. There are a plethora of videos available that can educate even the most timid of learners. This is why it is so beneficial for single parent families. Why? Simply put, instead of paying for every little repair, YouTube makes it easy to turn it into a do-it-yourself project, which can save hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars, in the long run. Even if you choose to let someone else complete the task, having the knowledge allows you to make sure its done right. For these reasons, YouTube is a great alternative to a paid handyman in the single parent home.

2. It gives you ideas on activities to do with your kids.

We all know children’s favorite phrase. I was guilty of driving my parents crazy with it when I was younger. The age old decree, “I’m bored!” Well, with YouTube, kids and parents can kiss boredom goodbye, along with overpriced trips to theme parks. From videos on do- it- yourself projects to things to explore, deciding on the next family adventure becomes easy when you start perusing all the channels dedicated to kids and parents. From nature hikes to science exploration, there is never a dull moment with YouTube at your fingertips and you can do everything while staying on budget.

3. You can learn how to build things on your own.

My kids wanted a tire swing. Instead of hiring someone, we binged on tire swing videos, figured out essential materials, learned the types of swings we could build, then set a build date to construct one of our own. It has since provided hours of fun for all the kids in the neighborhood, all while saving me tons of money.

Think of something that would be a fun family project then do your research on YouTube. Watch several videos to get different perspectives, then pick the process that is best for you. Our next project is a fire pit. We’ve already done the research. We’re just picking the best weekend to get the project started. Whatever you choose, make sure it will provide a relief for your family without busting your budget. Save money by learning to build things on your own.

4. It’s a low-cost way to get healthy.

From cooking channels to workout videos, YouTube can provide endless hours of ways to eat healthy, activities to do, and videos you can get fit with. Since attending a yoga studio can get pricey very quickly, finding a great yoga instructor is made easy on the platform. Once you’ve chosen a favorite activity or cooking show, subscribe to the channel, then stay current on the latest trends all while saving money on food and fitness. You may even get your kids involved by exercising with them and cooking along with your favorite chef, all in the comfort of your home.

5. The right videos can provide quality entertainment for your kids.

Finally, while there is much to be avoided on YouTube, there are equal amounts of high quality learning shows and entertainment for your kids. Just be mindful of what they are watching and you can find great joy in allowing them to explore their interest such as airplanes, science, investigations, or simply put, anything! The best part about this is that you can fulfill their thirst for knowledge without spending a penny!

In short, social media has gotten a bad wrap due to some people that use it for vile purposes. However, as a general tool, it is a must have and must needed resource for single parents looking to save money. From providing entertainment to being of practical use, YouTube has become a staple in my home for the reasons stated above and many more.

So how do you use YouTube? What are your favorite channels? Please let us know what great content you have stumbled upon so that we can check it out and benefit as well. Additionally, join our Facebook group, SingleParent$aves, to be connected with super savers like yourself.

For more resources on saving money while being a single parent, check out more articles here.

Happy saving, live well!

You Don’t Have to Be Smart to Be Rich

Building wealth and saving money is more about behavior than book smarts. Financial freedom can be achieved by everyone.

People often equate wealth to intelligence. While it seems that the correlation may be high, that just isn’t so.  Earning wealth and gaining financial freedom is as simple as making a sandwich. If you follow these four steps, you will be well on your way to being a single parent that is financially stable and living a debt free life.

Step 1 – Be focused.

In order to gain financial freedom, you must be focused. In order to be focused, you must have goals. Once you have goals, you need a plan to achieve them. By having a goal and a plan to achieve it, you are setting yourself up for success since you will be focused on reaching that goal. Its like a trip. If you get in a car in search of your dream vacation, you’ll fail. How will you know if you’re headed in the right direction, or if you’ll even reach that destination if you haven’t detailed what it is you’re trying to do? Have a goal, make a plan, stay focused. Its that simple when building wealth and eliminating debt.

Step 2 – Be Determined.

Determination is the quality single parents need if they want to overcome many obstacles, including financial ones. Challenges will come, that’s guaranteed. But in order to take control of their finances, single parents must be determined not to let unexpected expenses, debt, stress, and a helpless attitude lead them down the road to debt, or keep them there. Being determined helps with focus and both of these qualities have more to do with behavior than intelligence.

Step 3 – Be intentional.

Intent is having a purpose for doing something. It covers being resolved, committed, and “set on” whatever it is you want to do. Being intentional requires putting the focus of a plan, the determination of a marathon runner, and the purpose of a dedicated individual together in order to power your way to success. Having intent means that you will think before making that impulse buy and leave it in the store, instead of indulging. Being intentional means being deliberate, planned, and making decisions based on the sole purpose of achieving your goal. Again, none of this requires an Einstein intellect, rather, the patience of Ghandi.

Step 4 – Be Ambitious.

Ambition is the trait of being determined, motivated, striving, and a “go getter.” Sometimes the word gets a bad rap, especially when associated with people being ruthless, but being ambitious when it comes to getting one’s financial house in order is necessary in order to break the chains of debt. Ambitious people dream big and let nothing get in the way of their goals.  There is a healthy balance in being ambitious that is necessary in order to obtain financial freedom. Its in all of us and can be cultivated by following the first three suggestions.

Focused.Determined.Intentional.Ambitious. Those are the qualities that it takes to be successful and get rich. Single parents are in the best position to take control of their finances since they are the only one in the driver’s seat. While having a second income may have its perks, following the four steps above will get anyone in the right position to take control of their money and financial destiny. So what are you waiting for? Get started now!

What qualities do you think are necessary to be rich? Please share in the comments below and join our Facebook group, SingleParent$aves, to be part of a community of savers like yourself.

Happy saving, live well!  

Ten Tips to Stay Focused on Your Financial Goals

Staying focused on financial goals can be a constant struggle. Use these tips to stay headed in the right direction.

As the year rolls on, many people have lost their excitement in achieving their financial goals. Everything from a broken appliance, car repair, or an unexpected expense can dampen the spirit of even the most dedicated people. 

But why should “unexpected events” like that slow you down?  Guess what, they can’t if you are prepared and have a plan.

But how is it possible to plan for expenses like those? Easy, have a sinking fund.

Car expenses are inevitable, hence they really aren’t “unexpected.” If you own a home, something will always go awry, so those tabs aren’t unexpected expenses either.  The point is, there really is no excuse to be unprepared in the event of an “emergency.” Follow these ten tips to stay focused on your financial goals and to be prepared for the “unexpected.” Just click on each hyperlink to be sent to an article to help get you started (or keep you rolling) in the right direction.

  1. Have a plan, set SMART financial goals. The saying goes, “If you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.” Don’t start out on the wrong foot, set smart savings goals if you want to achieve them.
  2. Start saving today.  In order to get the full benefits of compound interest, the sooner you start, the more you’ll save.
  3. Find ways to cut costs. As single parents, choosing the right daycare, cutting your cable bill, and saving on groceries can be like getting a second job! This is one of the easiest ways to keep money in your pocket. What cost can you slash?
  4. Decide to be debt free. Rid yourself of the burden of credit card debt and find a plan to help chart the course. Click here for one that worked for me.
  5. Use sinking funds to be ready for those “unexpected expenses.” This article talks about vacations and car insurance, but you can create accounts for anything you need to save up for.
  6. Be nice to yourself and allocate money for self-care.  While it is important to save with intensity, you must enjoy life now. That’s why its important to maintain the right balance with your money.
  7. Stay encouraged by reading about personal finance and saving. These 5 books will change your life.
  8. Have a plan for the unthinkable. Two emergency funds may be best if you want the security of a six month emergency fund for job loss, plus money set aside for those pesky “unexpected emergencies.” I feel better with two in place, although one is a start.
  9. Avoid making money mistakes. Choose a home you can afford and consider purchasing a mature home. Also, don’t try to keep up with the Joneses. Stay focused on your money goals. Avoid these other traps.
  10. Just have fun. We only have one chance to live life. Try not to stress over things and enjoy the life you’ve been given.  Hindsight is 20/20. Instead of dwelling on what you didn’t do or what has happened in the past, get excited about the wonderful opportunities that are sure to come – especially when you’re financially free and building wealth.

What tips will you try first? Pick two or three then share in the comments. Also, join our Facebook group to be linked to a community of single parent savers like yourself.

Happy saving, live well!

SingleParent$aves’s Six Super Tips to Boost Your Savings

Watch your money grow by following these super saver tips.

Being a single parent can result in financial struggles since there is only one source of income. Regardless of whether your salary is high or low, single parents must find a way to save money. Not just for emergencies, but also for their future – aka retirement. With that in mind, it is all too easy to say “I can’t afford to save any money!” While I understand your pain, being a single parent has earned us some grit and with that comes a no excuses mentality.  This means that while you may be strapped for cash, you must either increase your income through a side hustle, or cut your expenses, in order to make saving a priority.

Try the following six steps to super charge your savings today!

  1. Pay for everything with cash.

Paying with cash is an easy way to spend less. If you don’t have a debit or credit card with you, you can only pay for “stuff” with what you have.  If the total exceeds your cash on hand, items have a way of making themselves back to shelves. This is a great way to boost your savings since you won’t tap into it to make purchases if you only use cash. One added bonus of a cash-only lifestyle is that you can collect all of your change and save in a piggy bank to treat yourself once its full. I actually do this myself and plan to use my coin savings for a much needed massage.

 2. Use sinking funds.

Sinking funds are savings accounts used to save money for recurring expenses. Think insurance payments (if you prepay), holidays, vacations, birthdays, car repair, home repair, etc. I like to send a few dollars from each check to different accounts so that I’ll know what’s available.  If you’re asking if you create a separate account for each fund, my answer is yes.  Many banks will allow it and it helps make budgeting easier. Learn more about saving with sinking funds here.

3. Create an allocation system to plan how to divide large sums of money.

“If you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.” Single parents have a pretty good idea of when they will be blessed with extra cash – tax season, the extra pay-check you receive each year if you’re on bi-weekly pay, etc.  Having a plan for how to allocate those funds helps ensure you don’t waste it all and put some aside in savings.  Its OK to say you’ll spend some, but make sure that you save most of it, and if you haven’t gotten out of debt already, use it to pay off those pesky credit cards. Developing a plan makes sure you don’t walk around in misery wondering where all the money went.

4. Start having fun for free.

In order to keep cash in savings, you must learn to have fun for free. There are several websites in major cities that provide daily and monthly listings of places to eat and events to attend for free. Many use the extension “fun for kids” and your city’s nickname. Check search engines to see if there is a chapter in your area.  If not, do some searching yourself. See what days museums offer free visits. Have picnics with your kids. Check-out local nature trails and beaches (if you’re nearby), and spend time outdoors. By entertaining for free, your savings stay intact and earn interest. That’s a win-win for everyone!

5. Use apps to set savings goals and track your progress.

I absolutely love apps that allow you to track your spending and set savings goals. Many allow you to attach a savings account to a specific goal and will give you regular updates on your progress.  If you’re like me and love to set SMART goals, using an app is a great way to get motivated and stay determined to super charge your savings. This tip can be used for both short-term and long-term goals, whatever you desire. So download an app and get it set up to start saving today!

6. Practice gratitude to enjoy what you have.

If you are happy with what you have, then you won’t want for more.  Practicing gratitude allows you to be content. That doesn’t mean that you settle for less, it means that you save money because you are not on the comparison bandwagon to impress anyone.  Being thankful for what you have super charges your savings since you’ll find more joy watching your bank account grow than shopping for more to keep up with the Joneses.  This is the most valuable, super-charged advice of  all time.

Using these tips is sure to put a satisfying boost in your savings. Saving is essential for any single parent since the demands of being the head of household can sometimes be overwhelming. With a little planning and a lot of determination, super charging your savings can be done!

So what are your tips for boosting savings? Share in the comments below. Also, join our Facebook community at SingleParent$aves to get even more involved with fellow savers like you.

Happy saving, live well!

How Avoiding Financial Talks Leads to Generational Poverty

Sharing knowledge is the most powerful way to end the wealth gap and start a legacy of financial freedom.

One of my goals last year was to start opening the dialogue about personal finance with friends and family. All too often people avoid talking about money for various reasons. Maybe they don’t know much about it themselves and don’t want to look silly. Perhaps they are ashamed of their finances and don’t want people to know their struggles. There are a plethora of reasons why people don’t discuss money, even though its what drives much of our behavior and is the easiest type of information to share in order to avoid costly mistakes. The failure of people to talk about personal finance is the reason why generational poverty, instead of wealth, is so rampant.

Recently I had the pleasure of speaking with several amazing women at a “Dinner and Desserts” gathering. The hostess wanted to encourage women of various ages, experiences, and backgrounds, to have healthy discussions about whatever our hearts desired. Surprisingly, the topic of money emerged. One of the women stated that her parents was of the generation that didn’t know much about finances, so they couldn’t teach it. They had to learn on their own. While that may have been a barrier back then, we can no longer use that excuse in the Internet Age.

With so much information available – blogs, podcasts, the internet – it is hard for parents not to learn what it takes to be financially successful. Knowledge is at our fingertips and it is up to us to share that with kids in order to embolden them for the future. Additionally, let’s not forget the most powerful teaching tool available, our own personal experiences.

Some may argue that children don’t need to be burdened with adult issues such as money and personal finance. I beg to differ. The earlier kids learn the basics, the better prepared they are to tackle life’s obstacles. In fact, you may be surprised to see how they may pitch in to help save which may get the entrepreneurial spirit started in them as well.

As the conversation continued, many shared the same sentiment – “My parents didn’t teach me about that.” We as single parents MUST inculcate healthy financial habits into our kids, with the same fervor and intensity as we push the power of education along with the benefits of healthy eating.

In a recent post in our SingleParentSaves Facebook group (join by clicking here), members were asked to share money lessons they learned as children.  How enlightening! It seems many were taught that they should save, but what about the why? Investing lessons? Nope. The benefit of charitable giving? Nada. How heartbreaking!

A well rounded financial plan involves four fundamentals – giving, spending, saving, and investing. If children are to be given the tools they need to end the cycle of financial struggling, generational poverty, and going into debt to “keep up with the Joneses,” then we must be open and honest with them as soon as possible.

What better gift to give your kids than the gift of knowledge? However, too little knowledge is crippling. Don’t just teach them about saving, they need to understand the benefits of  investing. Teach them about the differences between needs and wants, but also that its OK to take care of themselves. They need to know that there is more joy in giving than receiving, so being charitable is essential. Teach them to start saving as early as possible to take advantage of compound interest. Show them how creating a budget based on percentages will make sure they know where all of their money is going. Tell teens they can open a custodial Roth IRA as soon as they begin earning income.  Teach young kids lessons on income, expenses, and prioritizing their money by paying them for chores.  Whatever you do, teach them now!

Children are resilient and need to know as much as possible from reliable sources, such as you, now more than ever. They can access all kinds of information online, valid or not, which can cause serious harm if not given in the right context. Have candid conversations with your kids and reap the benefit of knowing that you laid the foundation for them to be financially free for life. You can do it and your kids are ready to learn.

I challenge you to talk to your friends and setup a “desserts and discussion” event to share knowledge with people you know and trust. Let us know what you plan and how it goes in the comments below. Join the SingleParentSaves Facebook group to stay engaged and active with fellow savers. Together, we can end generational poverty and begin the cycle of generational wealth.

Happy Saving, Live Well!

Five Money Mistakes to Avoid – A SingleParent$aves Smart Money Solution

Avoid these common mistakes to be a financially free single parent.

Although money rules to be successful haven’t really changed – spend less than you earn, save and invest for your future – they are slightly different for single parents. Single parents must be able to handle unexpected home expenses, childcare, school related expenses, and so much more, all on one income. Hence, while the basics of money management are generally consistent across the board, single parents need to steer clear of common beliefs in order to avoid five major money mistakes. Read on!

Mistake 1 – Saving for College

As single parents, the desire to prepare kids for the most successful future possible is strong. We don’t want our kids to struggle financially, emotionally, socially, or educationally. However, it is important that single parents not save for their kid’s college education unless they are on track to retire comfortably, have a 6-month emergency fund saved up, and are able to comfortably pay for it, without sacrificing their own quality of life.

Why? Kids can go to college, with or without your help. They have scholarships, grants, and their own ability to work that can be used to cover college expenses. With advanced credits, some students may even be able to leave high school with a 2-year degree. Nice! For those reasons, if you cannot easily and comfortably save for college then don’t fret. Your child will still be ahead. With a parent like you at their side, they are sure to make smart decisions that will help make college affordable and beneficial for everyone in the family.

Mistake 2 – Not Saving for Retirement

This is a HUGE one. The goal of a single parent is to prepare their child for future success without being a burden when they reach their golden years. The way to do that is to save for retirement, now! You should be saving at least up to your company match each year, and altogether a total of 15% of your annual income.  This is extremely important and takes priority over any other financial goal you may have. Don’t say that you can’t or don’t have any money to save, find a way! There are no programs, scholarships, grants, or magical fairies that will help you enjoy being retired. In fact, if you don’t save, how can you retire? 

The best gift you can give your child is a secure future for yourself. The sooner you start saving, the faster your money will grow. Check out my resources page for more help with this.  Start saving today!

Mistake 3 – Buying Out of Guilt

Sometimes parents want to make up for being absent, or not having an absent parent in a child’s life, by buying things. Big mistake! Kids love you when they know you care. Spending quality time with your child will beat any toy or gadget that could ever get them. Dishing out cash to fill a void or make-up for the situation you are in is not the solution. Spend wisely, save consistently, and invest intentionally to give you and your child a solid financial foundation.

Mistake 4 – Neglecting Self-Care

Give yourself a break! I mean it. Single parents often find themselves devoting so much time to their kids that they forget to take care of themselves. Don’t do it! It’s not necessary to spend a ton of money, or any for that matter, but you do need to make time for yourself. Even if it means hanging out with a friend or asking family to keep the kids for a few hours, you need to decompress. Neglecting self-care translates into a mistake because if you are stressed out and not practicing healthy habits, it will eventually translate into major medical bills. You don’t want that! So, check out this post on taking care of yourself and make self-care a priority too. You’ll thank yourself now and later.

Mistake 5 – Not Teaching Your Kids About Money

Its not a secret. You’re single. The budget has tightened. Things are not the same as in other households. Be honest with your kids. Talk to them about how things have changed if you’ve endured a divorce. If you’ve always been single, explain to them why life is a bit different for your family. They can handle it and deserve to know the truth.

I show my kids the budget and talk to them regularly. When they want something, instead of saying “no,” or “I can’t afford that,” they hear my mantra, “I have to determine how to afford that,” or “I don’t have the cash for that, yet.” This helps kids learn about patience, needs, wants, financial responsibility, accountability, and making good choices.  It also opens opportunities for  you to teach them even more. For example, you can let them help manage the budget and allocate funds for household needs. That alone save tons of headaches since they won’t ask you to buy unnecessary things if they are aware of the family’s financial situation. I started these conversations when my kids were 5 years old and they are better because of it. The desire to start a food stand and sell things hit my youngest hard and has resulted in many business ventures that have provided invaluable learning experience. Tell your kids the truth and teach them what you wish you had learned when you were a kid. It makes for much more appreciative and gratuitous kids both now and in the future.

There you have it! Five money mistakes to avoid. There are tons more to consider but these are the biggest, in my opinion. What do you think? What mistakes would you add to the list? Please share in the comments below.

Happy Saving! Live Well!

Why You Should Love Interest Payments

Interest payments are wonderful, when you’re the recipient.

The dreaded interest payment. It can add years to the life of a loan. What should be a $150,000 mortgage can quickly skyrocket to over $350,000 with the addition of interest payments over the course of 30 years. Startling statistics show that paying off a $5,000 credit card balance can take over 10 years by making only minimum payments if the interest rate is around 12%. That’s insane!

Clearly, this is why banks love interest payments, but why should you? The answer is simple. What if those same interest fees that you would pay on debt suddenly turned into income for you? That’s right, what if you were the recipient of interest payments? Now we’re talking!

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not suggesting that you start the Bank of Single Parents, that’s not reasonable. What I am suggesting is that instead of drowning in credit card debt, student loan payments, and/or unreasonable mortgage debt, giving away your hard earned cash, park your emergency fund in a high interest paying bank account then watch the balance add up to note-worthy amounts. Sounds great, huh?!?

Take it a step further and invest in your retirement account so that your rate of return on dividends and stock market increases act as interest payments to turn yourself into an everyday millionaire. It can be done!

Now I can hear some of you screaming “I don’t have any money,” and “How can I save when I’m a single parent,” but I’m here to remind you to read my articles on why you MUST pay yourself first, how to start saving when you’re a single parent, and why you need to set smart financial goals. When you combine a great debt reduction plan, as explained in my Dave Ramsey post, then saving becomes a reality, stress is greatly reduced, and you are able to spend quality time with your kids, being the awesome single parent that you are.

Remember, raising kids alone does not mean you are destined for debt and despair. It just requires you to think differently, set new priorities, and be more kind to yourself.  Despite the statistics, single parenting can and should be enjoyable, even if you struggle with the daily routine.  

As a single parent, I had to reassess how I thought about my situation and learn to look for the good. Sure, some sacrifices have to be made, but not at the expense of saving for retirement and factoring in some me time too.

Check out my resources page for financial calculators and tools to help single parent families thrive, not just survive. It’s within your power to be a happy parent, raising wonderful kids, despite the situation you find yourself in.

Growing money is fun and exciting. Parking your emergency fund in an account earning 2% interest may not sound like much, but its better than paying 2%. For example, as your wealth builds due to earning 2.2% on $25,000, you can get $550 the first year. As interest compounds, or adds up, in year two you’d earn 2.2% on $25,550 instead of just $25,000, which amounts to a new balance of $26, 112.10, just for leaving the money in the bank. Each year, you earn interest on the new balance, not simply the initial $25,000. Over 30 years, the final amount is really nice totaling over $70K! Change the situation to earning the market average of about 12% each year and the result skyrockets to over $2.2 million! Wow! Click the link here to play with the numbers and see for yourself how fun earning interest can be.

That’s it, in a simplified nut shell! So what are your plans for earning interest payments? Share in the comments below.

Happy Saving! Live Well!